Purr , my friend , I am so sorry this is how its turned out for you. The others have given great advice. You will now at least be able to fit some of this puzzel together and I think it will answer a lot of the questions you had. Try to ignore her anger , this seems to be a normal ( is there such a thing? ) response to being found out. The best advise is to pull back and look after yourself. There is little you can do other than this with OM involved.
