Wow, yall are just like my sitch. My wife said that in the past God always knocked her upside her head and told her to come back to me, but not this time. This time she feels God is telling her its ok to walk. I tried emailing her bible versus that said otherwise to and just got further in trouble as far as angering her. I am finally learning to step back after I read DR and I am praying with faith now and I know that God is working on her even though I may not see it right now. You have to pray with faith like he is doing it now though. This whole thing has forced me back to God before where as I left him for many years in our marriage. One thing my sister told me to pray tonite is for the conversion of my wifes soul and that God's will be done not mine. But that if it is his will for us to reconcile, please let it happen. And the others are right. Its a tough road now. There are up and down days and you have to keep your faith no matter how dark it looks and just let God take control. This one is out of our hands and the more we try to control it, the worse it gets. It truly is a spiritual war going on. I tried telling all this to my wife and she disagreed and then even said she can just be forgiven of her sins. Just keep staying out of it, do what God expects of you as a Christian, husband, and father if you have children and pray to him and let him fight it. Also do what DR says to, and keep in mind, DR is pretty much telling you the same thing as what you need to do to let God fight it as far as staying out of it and letting her come back to you. Good luck to you, and the rest of us and just keep your faith strong no matter what. I'm not looking forward either to what I may have to witness from my wife before a turning point occurs. But I have stand up and face it and stay out of it no matter what if I want God on my side fighting for this marriage. May God bless all of us and I know he will work things out. It just may not be in our timing. It usually isn't. Its in his.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
