Maybe I should be in piecing part 5?

[hopeful4her]

Hellooo.

H4U, I think you understood what I was talking about. I was NOT talking about getting her into bed for sex purposes.

You DID understand that, right? Like I said at the first of my post, affection stuff. Not sex stuff. The true stuff that we miss. We are not beasts. We are simply human.

The hugs, the holding of hands, being close. That is the affection that I was speaking of. Do I miss sex? Hell yes. But what I miss more is the affection of my wife. A simple touch of my hair, a rub of my neck while driving in the car. A purposeful bump of a hip while passing by. The little things.

Don't get me wrong, who's gonna turn it down, but come on. We know better.

Sandi, I think you just misunderstood my post. I think a big step would be to have her just SLEEPING in the marital bed again.
At first, reading your post, it seemed like you were just on a rant, but midpost, you started to make sense and hit the mark.

Sorry if I got you riled up.