Trixi aka "The Pitbull who can't let go"

[NikB]

I forgot to mention - some of the "requirements" you had seemed kinda strange to me. Like the status on FB being the very first one? And you being "allowed" to decorate the house???

I dunno how to explain it but those hit me like "Ummm.. what?!?!"

One of my very top ones, if I were you, would be solution-based MC and/or IC for you both. Maybe Retro. Just SOMETHING to get you guys re-aligned again. Maybe decorating and FB are more important to you than they are to me - if so that's cool! But I suspect there's more that you truly need if you dig deep. And you deserve it.