I also have been reading your posts in other peoples threads. They are helping me a lot.
I think my W has decided to leave. She said she was going to move into another bedroom right after our kids leave to go back to collage this weekend. So I do not have to decide if that was something I should ask of her. I will see if she will do it in the next few days.
She says my being romantic is causing her to run away. Thats something from one who said that she did not think I had a "romantic bone in my body". I guess that goes with don't believe anything they say. I did not think that I was still pursuing her.
I am reading the list you posted in my thread at least once a day now.
I believe you are helping a lot more people that you think.
