Yes kat, I'm going for full custody, W wasn't happy about it, saying even people in jail get 50% custody, I told her that if I gave her 50% custody (on paper), I could never trust that she wouldn't come back at me looking for child support. She even tried to get full custody (on paper) of one kid so she could file as head of household with the IRS (better standard deductions). She knows that if I see anything other than full custody listed in the D paperwork, I'll flip out. Last thing she wants is to fight this out in court.
I have to watch myself, I don't want to upset her, just like she doesn't want to fight this out in court, I don't want a custody battle on my hands. I have always told her anytime she wants the kids come and get them. Its turned out just like I thought somewhere just north of never.
She will pick the kids up sometime around 2:00 and 4:00pm tomorrow and drop them off at 9:00am on Sunday and in her head, she has spent the an entire day with them.
Tired of all this, confused, wondering about my future, whats Gods plan for me, will I ever meet someone and fall in love again, will I be hurt again, whats all this going to do to my kids, what does this teach the kids, (throw away society) and I'm tired, very tired of keeping my mouth shut, she spews out all this nonsense all the time, and I just want to tell her to shut up or I don't give a rats ass but I don't I keep my mouth shut and don't say anything.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
