Purr, Sit quietly and wait. Your wife is angry because she got caught and you found out. Her hand was in the cookie jar and someone caught her.
Don't even allow her to manipulate you or your thoughts. Just listen and sift through what she's telling you. They do tend to tell on themselves.
Go dim for a while and allow her to come to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
