It's been awhile since I first responded to you and alot has transpired. I'm so sorry. You have handled it all very well and your children will indeed take note.
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"I think that we need to live seperately for a while. I suspect that you have some strong feelings for this OW and I cannot live in the same house with you while you are continuing to disregard my feelings. I have asked you to stop contact and you have refused, so I think you need to leave for a while. When you are ready to work on our R and leave OW out of the picture, I will be here."
This is powerful. The issue of respect is huge. It sounds like you've read "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson. If not, you should - it will reinforce what you are doing.
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H kept saying that he didn't know where he would go.
As Puppy would say: CONSEQUENCES
Let your H figure it all out by himself. Until he starts feeling the consequences, nothing will change.
Stay strong!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
