Thanks for this. Just sent a msg back to w. and basically let her know that what I was hearing was not matching up with what she was saying but that at this point, I don't really want to hear anymore, nor discuss it further. I said the man's w. will do what she does to deal with her situation, that's not my issue and I'm not interested in being a part of that. I let her know I will continue to focus on getting the house sold and then I will be out of her life.
Ironically, I feel myself somewhat shaking in my boots--it's so crazy--they have been lying, adulterous, but my W. is angry at ME?? Even though I said in the email that I would keep her posted on the house but did not want to discuss this part further, I have a sense she is going to blast me with something.