I do wonder if she'll ever position that mirror in front of herself enough to see what she's doing to herself. I guess I'm kind of prepared for the same alternative as you with your X...We're into the eight month now and it's still just anger from her and very little in between...the only times she hasn't been angry were after she told me she was going to move out the first time - and then the few days before she moved out - it was weird - she acted kind of giddy around those times - like she was just so excited to be on her own and living out this fantasy of what she thought it would be like...I wonder if the fantasy has held up at all - no...I don't really wonder that...I figure that if it had she wouldn't need to be angry toward me all the time...it would just be unnecessary.
Ah well...I'm just getting more and more into this time for me and my kids...It still hurts sometimes, but I keep seeing more and more signs of how it's getting better.
