You are right the patience thing is tough, I gotta do what I gotta do! I will try not to take the ups and downs personally. Her friends leave in the morning so we shall see what happens.
She mentioned earlier that she would like help taking down the Christmas tree. So while she was out I took it down myself and vacuumed and clean the house. I thought she has been busy with her friends so I thought I would surprise her. I am trying to pay attention to the things she says. She just went out for dinner with her friends and texted me "the house looks amazing".
I am trying to do the little things that make her happy, to show her that I can take care of her. I was supposed to go out for dinner with them but my wife wanted to go out with just the girls. She asked if it was ok I said of course have fun! She seemed to appreciate that.
So day by day I am trying to be the strong man I once was and being consistent seems to be working.
Cheers, Jeff
Do have a thread other than the holiday one?
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