Mo3, I just finished reading your first thread and just wanted to say thank you for posting your story and your questions. My H also has said the "Let's go ahead and D and then maybe someday we'll be able to come back together in a new M." I was the same as you, like WTF???!!! It was good to read everyone's take on it. (((Hugs))) and thank you.
Mel
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
