I didn't think about that. She may have. Or, perhaps more likely, she got the letter and DIDN't contact him. He was pretty mad when I told him that I had sent it. He told me that since I had "closure" with her, he also needed closure with her. We fought about that. I told him that if he had any contact with her at all, I was finished with him.
Things has been up and down since then.
He did agree with why I didn't want him to contact her, said that he wouldn't if I didn't want him to, but then has been all over the map since then.
He already did suck me into a fight. One too many negative comments to me today... He went upstairs to bed and left me downstairs on my own. Whatever. I am pretty tired of this treatment.
I'm all for letting him spin. Been thinking about how I will let him spin tomorrow.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
