Hi Sara,

I have read your posts over and over again. There are tons of questions on my mind, but let me start with just a few:

- You described how couples arrive in separate cars, but by Saturday night they hold hands. What makes them change their mind, their feelings so quickly? It has been 7 or 8 weeks since the bomb, and I notice minor changes in my W's attitude. It is hard to believe that 24 hours at Retro will do the job.

- What happens at the follow-up sessions? Are there more presentations on a specific topics? Everybody says they are important, but how so?

Thank you for your patience.

AN


M43 W45, M17
S9 D6
Bomb: 11/11/08
EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ?
Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09
Healed, but still heading for D
My situation