Bill may be right. Your H is clueless. I still feel the only way he'll see the light is through continued MC and his own IC. If he won't do both of those, he won't change.
IC for you will help w/your feelings too as you've made your changes and have grown tremendously. However, the IC may help you w/your frustration over your situation w/H.
When you've reached the end, you'll know it. Just make sure you turn over every stone - even if you feel you already have - so you won't have any regrets about moving forward.
Be thorough, honest, and self-critical in your assessment and you'll be sure that you don't leave anything out there and will have played all of the cards in your hand.
