My ray of sunshine is a little dimmed, ok burned out today!!!! It's official I hate my H! He came over at 4:30 about 2 hours early to pick up the kids today. I wash their blankets right before they leave with him or he complains. So we all went to the therapist today for 2 hours! and got home about 10 minutes before he came in. He walks into the house and I was topless in the bedroom changing shirts. He was dropping off the check in the house b/c he hasn't done the direct deposit thru his work if he will ever. He also said there's a FL statute that the bank isn't supposed to hold the check for 3 days (as they all seem to do including mine). I asked him if he had the statute since I didn't have time to take the bank to his bank and then mine in 30 minutes plus finish packing the kid's clothes of course. He said you should have asked for it. I did, emailed him 2 weeks ago, but he either didn't read my email and I know from his lack of response to some emails he hasn't worked in the last week or 2 which is where he gets my message. Maybe he took off 2 weeks vacation with OW, although he only spent 2 hours with the kids in the past week?, or maybe just didn't read it. He was talking to me when I said I did email you, and I just walked in the house and slammed the door (yes, I'm very mature). I forwarded my email to him from 2 weeks ago, and said he must be having problems with his email or something so this is my 2nd request for the statute he says he has. Thanks! And please email to let me know if you are going to pick up the kids several hours early so I can have them packed & ready as I do (when he doesn't pick them up hours early). I think he's such an azz!!!
The kids and i all talked to the therapist today. Told her I applied to a dozen jobs the past couple weeks (about 30 now total) all the part-time jobs I'm qualified for or overqualified for (clerk jobs, food service jobs, etc. Anything that will pay the rent. Nothing. It's a bad economy all over, but in Tallahasse my area there are 2 4 year colleges, FSU and FAMU, in addition to the 2 year cc college. So all those thousands are competing against me, plus the thousands that have lost their job in this area the past year. So my C thinks applying in other areas is a good idea, prob. easier to get a job, and get a more professional job in a few years as well. Her only concern is that b/c H will have to pay for plane tickets for the kids that they might want to reduce my alimony (he can't reduce the child support) to pay for that. Then I would have no choice, but to work full-time, but so be it. I'm done with dealing with this butt! Don't want to spend the rest of my life dealing with this loser!!! Karen
He came over at 4:30 about 2 hours early to pick up the kids today. I wash their blankets right before they leave with him or he complains. So we all went to the therapist today for 2 hours! and got home about 10 minutes before he came in. He walks into the house and I was topless in the bedroom changing shirts. He was dropping off the check in the house b/c he hasn't done the direct deposit thru his work if he will ever. He also said there's a FL statute that the bank isn't supposed to hold the check for 3 days (as they all seem to do including mine). I asked him if he had the statute since I didn't have time to take the bank to his bank and then mine in 30 minutes plus finish packing the kid's clothes of course. He said you should have asked for it. I did, emailed him 2 weeks ago, but he either didn't read my email and I know from his lack of response to some emails he hasn't worked in the last week or 2 which is where he gets my message. Maybe he took off 2 weeks vacation with OW, although he only spent 2 hours with the kids in the past week?, or maybe just didn't read it. He was talking to me when I said I did email you, and I just walked in the house and slammed the door (yes, I'm very mature). I forwarded my email to him from 2 weeks ago, and said he must be having problems with his email or something so this is my 2nd request for the statute he says he has. Thanks! And please email to let me know if you are going to pick up the kids several hours early so I can have them packed & ready as I do (when he doesn't pick them up hours early). I think he's such an azz!!! 
