I had a thought the other day when I read your post, but I didn't know how to communicate it.
I was listening to Dr Robin Smith on Oprah today and she said exactly what I was thinking. And that is that churches and organizations like that often attract "broken" people who are in denial. So we can nurture and help them, but when we turn to them for support they simply can't do it. Its not that they won't, but they are "broken" so they simply aren't able.
Its not you at all. You're the one who can and does give everything. They simply can't reciprocate. I think I saw someone mention attending or starting a support group earlier in the thread. That might be the best idea ever.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.