You got that right. That's why i have a couple of other "social" networks starting. just to keep me dark. She knows nothing about me. Yet I am finding out now that the kids are getting questioned by her and even her "friends" when she is out of the room. Like what am I doing, who am I with, how have I been, does he talk about her/me....

I have to answer questions carefully. they get answered, but if i can get by with vague, then vague it is...

I say nothing negaitve about her or my situation. My kids know by looking at me how I am dealing with it. That's good enough right now. She wanted my son to put that cowel in the trash so I wouldn't see it, let's get real. she didn't leave me a note or call because she didn't want me to know. But, then she knew my son would know and he would tell me. I surprised her with my call. good. that I was first concerned about her welfare above everything else, good. then got onto business, good. I'm sure her head is going, well he seems to be concerned about me, then he asks me for money he knows I don't have, so whats going on? Good....If her whole life is about OM and she is in love with him and he is in love with her then why is she miserable? Stay tuned for next weeks episode....