Marcum, I agree with cat03, that you probably need to make the decision to move forward without her. Reading your post here, the year time frame that you established appears to have arrived. Are things truly any better now than a year ago? If as you stated:
Originally Posted By: Marcum
"I am afraid she wont give me her new number and I don't even know were she lives right now."
If you do not know where she lives, do you really want her phone number?
Think about that, you know probably know where your friends live.
Even with "work only" friends, I know the general area where they live, if not the exact house.
I do not wish to be unsympathetic to your situation, but if you set a year time frame in your head and it is now approaching, if things have not substantial improved by the separation it is time to move on.
Me: 41 W: 41 Married: 17 years Together: 19 years 16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out." 16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out. 31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home! D 14 S 12 D 11 S 7
