Divorced, but 'still hopeful' to reconcile.

[still hopeful]

Hello all,

New Years Day was a lot of fun. I spent it with my XW and my children. We had a blast hanging out and watching the midnight fireworks over the river.

Presently, I am supporting my XW in getting through some personal challenges that are not directly related to me. People in my life ask me, why? Here's my why. I help because I care, because she asked, because I can, because it's the right thing to do, and because she is the mother of our children. I feel good in helping in the way that I am helping right now and when I feel this way it always turns our right that I did help.

Today, I am hanging out with my children and they keep my mood light, they help me to focus on what is right in my life, they help me to step outside of myself to look at myself and the world from dispassionate and rational point of view.

I am still walking the ever-perilous tightrope of working to reconcile my M and re-unite my family. My mood and my outlook is positive, despite not have any concrete evidence to show for my PMA. But I don't care about evidence right now. I choose to have a positive mental attitude and because of my choice everything looks brighter.

I will work at blogging daily to keep myself on the right path. I trust that those who care will follow along and post with their insights, encouragement, admonishments, and advice as their schedules allow.

Thank you all for being here. I know I am not alone in my journey. I appreciate your support. I feel your support. I am not alone. YOU are not alone. Make your day and someone else's brighter.

Tom