Hi, I haven't been able to find out anything about OW at all and he's not sharing. So for me, that is a dead end unfortunately.
For those who are in my situation or who have been in my situation: Not officially piecing, but trying to figure out if we can piece or not (serious baby steps here I know), how do you get over the awkwardness of the situation? Do you just fake it until it becomes natural again? Or is it always awkward? We're both avoiding R talks right now, letting things lie, but the pink elephant is always around and the odd moment of tenderness/closeness that we share is not enough to sustain this relationship.
Thanks to all who have responded to my posts. I am grateful for the support here, especially knowing that some are in much more complicated/difficult situations than I am.