Sometimes your closest friends can turn into your worst enemy, especially in a situation like this. Be careful, I learned that the hard way and now things are looking up and I still find myself telling me to just shut up about it. You are right in the fact that she needs to figure out for herself who he really is.
AS for the level of communication, that's how I've been. Then BAM! The current situation of her wanting to try and work things out and the possibilty of things looking up.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11