Jeff, Relax and take things as they come in a very slow fashion. Your patience will be tried many times in the days, weeks, etc. ahead. Just remember, she's very fragile and is like a fine piece of china. Listen, validate and be there as a friend, with no expectations.
This is the hardest part of reconciling. Patience!
I'm very happy that the new year is starting off on a very good footing for you. Enjoy your ski trip.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
