Originally Posted By: Kalni
I A bad boy to me is never a real man. And I need a real man. Dont have time to "babysit" anybody or be content with thrills with no substance...
Mike, look for an "equal", a woman that can give you the kind of satisfaction that doesnt need "drama" in the picture. Take care,
xxxxx
K


Amen to that Kalni. I don't need to "raise" another adult. I am a fixer and have realized that about myself. Coming to terms with the realization that I can't fix this, I can't control it has been one of the hardest things ever.

Originally Posted By: mishka422
So, in short, women are fixers and men are Gallahad's. Why can't a fixer and a Gallahad get together. I think it would be a perfect match. Both bringing out the best in each other? Hmmmm....interesting thought.


It would seem that it would be a match made in heaven, but if both people are "rescuers" with no one to rescue, then drama will have to be manufactured for each person to gain satisfaction from their role in the R.

I would look for someone who can/will meet you 1/2 way. If MHS38 went with the psycho ex, then she doesn't deserve the AWESOMENESS of the box of tampons that is you...


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option