You asked me on my thread if I ever dated during the crisis, I did not. I didn't because I thought it wasn't a good idea if I was standing for my M. But that is just me and each sitch is different.
It doesn't hurt to put little "thoughts" into H's head either. I even bought myself some flowers one time and my h asked where I got them from and I didn't answer. Also, once I stopped the calling and questioning of my h is when he started calling for "no reason." He was getting worried that I might have left him behind.
