Word of caution, your tone here in regards to OM is bitter, never, I repeat NEVER let her hear you that way about him.
I think I perplexed my W by never really lashing out or insulting him and I've had several opportunities to confront him face to face and jsut shrugged him off and said "you want her, you got her, she's YOUR problem".
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
