wii,

Happy New Year. Glad to see your New Year's eve went as well as it could. I would guess that her treating you civily is unsettling, because you never know when the "Ugly Twin" will come out. It's also sort of maddening, because it shows how easy it could be if she would buy into the program, and make good on her commitment to YOU.

Here's wishing you a better 2009. When you least expect it, something will happen for you.