Making my own good karma!!

[Silent Chrleader]

Thank you, BM, for you kind words. J is a real unique person, but he is still very hurt (and a little bitter) about his recent break-up from a 5 year relationship. I went on coffee break with him today and told him a little about DB'ing, and told him about how bitterness only hurts him. I do think I've may have found a real friend anyway.

On the H front, I have not called him at all, but he has called me several times keeping me apprised on what he's been doing with the finances. Most of it stuff I have no need or desire to know, but I think it's funny that he calls when he used to get mad at me for calling him for "no good reason". We are getting along very well. Like friends. Really!

I am really trying to keep NO EXPECTATIONS, but it's hard. I thought about telling him that J is just a friend and that I am still standing for our M and will wait for him until he figures himself out. But I know that would just put pressure on him and he would withdraw into his shell again. And it's probably not a bad thing if he "wonders" about J.

I asked H how his IC went on Wednesday (I know, I shouldn't have asked that!!), but H didn't seem to mind and said it went well, and C is really concerned about S17, so they talked about him (C is really concerned about H's influence and his relationship with S17, so that is C's way of talking to H in a "non-threatening" way I think). H said they also talked about him and "figuring out his new identity". I replied that "Yep, it's an interesting journey isn't it". H said that "Some of it's hard, but not much.". Not sure what to think about that. Yep, analyzing again......