Sophie..
Take Snodderly's advise never go back to that counselor...I had one like that 2 visits and I was out... she was all for husband leaving. I wasn't ready for that and she did more harm to me.
In my experience L's like money!!!! Every time they you or him contact them ""cha ching...You have explained to L you intentions I think he heard them... By not doing anything about D your husband will have too and he will have to pay.
Itsy


M54
H54
married 30 years
Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004
Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07?
Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05
Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues
OW 5/2005 not a prostitue
Divorced 9/2006