Thanks guys, I realized I posted twice accidentally, so I have two threads going on.
Johnny, I glanced at your thread. You say your W is still floundering on what she wants. My H is the same. I think he WANTS to want me, but doesn't. I am strongly considering telling him it is time to formally separate and live our lives as separate people. I tried it once and all he had to do was say a couple things and I was right back to "let's try to work on us then....." A good db'her, I'm not.
Have you updated your thread lately?
Hope4us - I don't know anything about OW. He claims nothing happened and nothing ever would. Just that the fact that he could have feelings for another woman meant there was something very wrong with us. I am undecided in whether I believe anything happened between them. I don't think he would ever admit it.
