I will definitely be over to your thread, was reading it this morning. Some serious waivering going on there, stay strong...
talked to W this morning becasue I have been a wreck thinking she got hurt. When she answered the phone at work, I sadi, "Hi, it's me. Happy New Year, are you OK?" She replied happy new year to you, yeah, i'm alright, not believable.. She told me what happened, knowing her, she had 2-3 drinks before she ehaded out at 7 at night so I am sure she was rolling along like cruella Deville...She told me she should've left me a note or called me. I said on a negative note, I need my car ins money. This is what I got:
1. Hasn't been making her car payments, has a verbal agreement withthe bank to start again today. She is over two months behind.
2. She is still driving on the donut and needs tires. Do I have to buy two ate once, I told her no, buy one this month and one next month and you'll be OK.
3. I told her the health ins card was in the bank overdrawn statement. She says thats another thing that has to come out today is $100 for that. I got news for her, $225 is owed. She bounced 2 checks totalling $151. Over drew the account with her ATM card. thats 75 in fees.
4. She told me she'l have to sell her body on the streets to make ends meet, doesn't know what to do.
5. Told her you ned to get me something call me no later than tomorrow, I need to go food shopping.
6. Says she will try to get me something.
I know she was waiting for mwe to offer to cvoer her insurance from last month, offer to get her a tire, offer to help her take care of her car, offer to help with her overdrawns. I offered NOTHING.
Feel bad for her, but I didn't put her in this position. She asked nothing about getting her car fixed, she hit someone else. i doubt she filed a police report. She didn't say how bad the other car was, nothing. she never asked the name of our car insurance company. these are things I always took care of, efficiently. She sounded upset and not alright. I don't mean physically.
Called the kids and told them she is OK, not to mention it to her. My older D and MIL are both pissed, they never received a phone call from her on New Years Eve or Day. I talked to her dad and he hasn't heard from her since Xmas when he told her he didn't have the money to lend her. that was a week ago. I called everyone yesterday because my phone died new years eve, got a new battery.
Got some fun planned this weekend and I am very excited. I have great plans thins month, first steps away from her got halted with this situation, but I have to be concerned. I think this walk is going to get off to a great start.
