Is she cheating?? (New thread!!)

[Hope4us]

I'll second what Puppy and Karen have said. Stop REACTING.

What do YOU WANT? Do you want to try and save your marriage or are you done?

Don't believe ANYTHING your W says right now. EVEN things you've overheard. She doesn't have a clue what she wants right now. Waywards will say things that make NO SENSE. So just blow it off.

And quit giving her ammunition to justify OM.

If you can't take this, then maybe you should just move forward with selling the house and moving on. No one would fault you for that. But if you want your marriage to have a chance, you've got to get a plan together like Puppy says. And it will take a LONG time.