God help him if he does marry her. He is not Mr. Right, he is Mr. Rightnow and he is not perfect and she will see that. JMHO...any R that begins with lying and cheating is doomed to fail. As wonderful as it seems, at what point will they each begin to wonder about the other? Where they are, who their with etc... Karma is a bitch, man.
Couldn't agree more S&S. I would suspect, the first time one of the affair partners goes out without the other and is a little late coming home, that's when the doubt starts.
You should have seen the look on my W's face when I told her that her OM was lying to her last fall when he'd told her he was going home to talk to his W about a D so my W and he could be 'together forever'. She actually believed him when he made up some story about the timing not being right for them to talk and he'd do it in a few weeks. Well, I confirmed with OMW that he hadn't even went home that weekend and was probably with his new GF. So anyway, I ramble, but when I told W what I knew, she was just stunned. Not sure why though....the guy she's cheating on me with, cheated on her? There's a surprise.
But that can't be right, they're soulmates....bleech.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.