I've Come Full Circle 23

[Sugar and Spice]

I watched a bit of 'Hope Floats' last night. Paraphrasing what she told her H, I got the best part of my wife. I got two beautiful girls. And I have my stepson.

I've told my H the same thing. The very best part of my H and myself lives within our 2 beautiful children. They were wanted and created out of love...how can that be bad?

And that's the thing even though our WAS may marry the OW that broke up our marriage ( well the two of them did I guess), how likely is it that marriage will be happy long-term or last? I mean we had good starts to our marriages, and you know how that worked out! And they started with cheating, lying, breaking up families, etc. The OW in my case has already been married 3 times, do you think that all of a sudden my H will become the perfect H for her? And if these guys want skanky hos then obviously we are not the right women for them!

God help him if he does marry her. He is not Mr. Right, he is Mr. Rightnow and he is not perfect and she will see that. JMHO...any R that begins with lying and cheating is doomed to fail. As wonderful as it seems, at what point will they each begin to wonder about the other? Where they are, who their with etc... Karma is a bitch, man.

2008 is over. Thank God. 2009 is full of endless possibilities, we just have to see where it takes us. How freakin' Pollyanna is that?