(((Lost))) my heart goes out to you. How you remain calm when she DELIBERATELY drags your kids into it is beyond me. That said, I think its time that you explored the possibility of sole physical and legal custody with her having a visitation schedule. If this is the kind of stuff she is doing in FRONT of you, I shudder to think about what she is telling them when you are not around. If they are still seeing W's C, then you might need to look into an alternative. Any C in their right mind would NEVER advocate children be put in a decision making position when it means the demise of their family.

It is time for her to leave. She has done enough damage to all of you for a while. You are a great dad, keep it up. Those kids need you more than ever.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option