I'm glad I updated the thread! I've read your thread, and it sounds like you have made a lot of progress lately. You don't mention if your H is seeing another woman. That would be the only potential problem. If there is no third party involved, then Retrouvaille would be an excellent choice. You can reassure your husband that this is NOT group therapy. The only person he will be talking to at Retrouvaille is you. In the group, you listen to the speakers. There is no group discussion. Retrouvaille is a very private, one on one experience. There are no therapists, counselors, or authorities. Just other couples who have been there and learned the pitfalls of unhappy marriages. This is a self-help program.
