I'm crying my eyes out reading your thread. I've made a commitment to myself and my H not to have any R talks until the end of January, and just focus on enjoying the holidays, etc...
I had tried to find a retreat for us, and just didn't see anything that seemed appropriate to us. This sounds superb. THANK YOU!
I'm going to ask him to go (when I've honored my commitment). I'm pretty sure he won't be open to it, as he's pretty private, but I'm going to try. Wish me luck.
I've posted my sitch, so if you have time, take a peek. I'd love input regarding the applicability of the retreat to where we're at right now...
THANK YOU AGAIN!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
