Marcum, DO IT, is she still keeping contact with you only because you are paying her bills? what kind of a R is that? I was taken advantage of by stbx in that way, living with me while dining and paying ow's bills with my paycheck. It is very disrespectful, to say the least, what she is doing right now.
It's a cliche, but it is very true, if you want something let it go... to see if it was even worth holding on to.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
