I wanted provide a little different perspective that I got from my pastor. He said as does MWD in DB books, that as long as one person in the M wants the M it is not over. He said 95% of all affairs end in 18 months. It is biological. When new love chemicals wear off they will see the new "love" as they really are. The history, children, life they has with the LBS is a strong tie. He said almost 100% of spouses that commit adultery try to return to the marriage at some point.
