I'm not holding up well at all. Today was horrible. After going on an overnight roadtrip and having a very nice New Year's Eve, and then waking up to hear my W say she didn't see a future for us I just sort of lost it.
Well, why you believe anything she says is beyond me. Believe none of what they say, cheaters are liars, etc. Sounds to me like your W may have been feeling kind of like you were, maybe positive about your M, and then she talks like that, to start a fight. This is classic. Then you fight, and she can justify her A. And says This is why I'm with OM. It's all crap.
We all mess up. You need to stop listening to what she's saying & DB your butt off. If you want to of course. Karen
