I'm probably the wrong guy to ask. I'm a big "A person goes where they're invited" guy, and after multiple rejections, I believe a high-drive spouse just stops trying altogether. But I suppose it wouldn't hurt for you to try once, and see what happens.
More importantly, I guess, I still just plain don't trust your wife, H4U. Even if she'd ML with you, I'd be doubting her motives.
But then again, I'm in a pretty cynical place, emotionally, right now, so maybe I should be the "low test score" that you throw out, along with the high one.
