I think that you need to step back a mile. Stop all the talk, stop looking into things, and stop interacting as much as possible. In other words GAL. You are a good person, and need to remember that this is not about you. This is about her. SHE is the one who can't decide. SHE is the one with the OM. So pick yourself up by your bootstraps, hug your D, and start taking care of yourself. Pray about what you need/want right now and listen to the answers.
