Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

[quote/]I don't know if I understand him, but I will say that men are afraid of a lot of things, especially of being found out to not be a hero, just an average guy with shortcomings and failings. We don't want to fail at anything. We want to be the hero, to be admired. We need affirmation. [quote/]

Let's see if my quoting worked. Anyway, guess I forgot about men wanting to be heros. With me being so independent & responsible, it must be difficult for my H. Putting this M back together - he would be hero. But I don't think he sees it that way.

Yes, I realize w/the band thing - that I could not compete w/the ego boost he was getting.