Just like when my H dropped the bomb & left. I'm guessing that was his way of "working" on our problems. But it was not my way. (And to make things worse I did the begging, pleading ....out of my mind crazy stuff ...).

In M I supposed we (LBS & WAW) start with our rose colored glasses on .... then the fog rolls in both sides may leave hints of problems & hints that they are trying to solve them or hints asking for our help in solving them. By the time all is realized our rose colored glasses are all fogged up (for both LBS & WAW). How to come out of that fog ....

Good to hear you had a nice New Years Eve. It would be hard to go out & then have to go to work. I stayed in & watched a movie as well. I had a nice evening too, quiet with no regrets.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)