Hi Snodderly...I had to tell you that I like the little 'slap back' to reality you gave me this morning.
I told you I did a little back slide. I completely went back to the place where I 'expect' H to act like the other grown ups I know.
I just cracked...plus, I think I crashed a little from the facade of xmas.
It kind of helped me though, to hear H whine about the same thing he has whined about for 4 years. I'm sure the conversation was a digression for him as well....but, I feel 'free' again today.
Thanks for the reminder...and I hope you ever feel like a broken record.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home