Hi Snodderly...I had to tell you that I like the little 'slap back' to reality you gave me this morning.

I told you I did a little back slide. I completely went back to the place where I 'expect' H to act like the other grown ups I know.

I just cracked...plus, I think I crashed a little from the facade of xmas.

It kind of helped me though, to hear H whine about the same thing he has whined about for 4 years. I'm sure the conversation was a digression for him as well....but, I feel 'free' again today.

Thanks for the reminder...and I hope you ever feel like a broken record.


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home