Hi Rob! Yes, I did have fun last night! And the hangover to prove it. I had a brilliant time, I went out dressed as a pirate, with his BMF, G and fiance Cher. They both think the world of me, really want me and ex to reunite and talked ALOT about him all night, without me having to even ask.

I found out whats going on...he is not in love with Helen. G told me that he is certain that he is going to end it with her any day now, for me. He said, I cant promise, but he definetly going to dump her, I am certain...I dont know if my ex said this, or G just sees it that way. He also said that Helen was not nice at all, horrible and he keeps asking him what hes playing at and says to him "9 years, 9 years!!" and my ex agrees.

I asked G if he was saying these things about Helen out of loyalty to me, being nice, he said no, she is awful. He said she is "a gobby, mouthy, aggressive little sh*t" (blimey). I said my ex was a good person and I couldnt believe he would go out with someone so horrible.. he said, you dont get it do you, the Helen thing? He said ok I will tell you, but dont tell him I did!...my ex had said....shes dirty in bed. Great.

So there we have it ladies and gentlemen, oldest cliche in the book. He is weak, she is a b*tch, she's breaking his balls and he's miserable, but shes bouncing him off the ceiling.

I felt disheartened when I heard this and sad. We had no issues in that area (not from what he said anyway), but I was right, what I posted about his Pluto-Venus transit.. she is the archetypal predatory, sexual, bitchy, domineering Pluto-Venus figure, he is in hell, its unhealthy for him, it wont last, but the sex is great.

Apparently he has told G he doesnt feel like he can talk to me about it (not sure whether he meant our R, or what is going on with this Helen). I told G I wish he WOULD have talked to me.

Cher said she is the exact image of me.. same figure, build, slim but nowhere near as pretty. Again I said, are you just being loyal/nice to me and she said, no, she is really not attractive. She said the atmosphere was so bad both times they met her, that they want nothing more to do with her. I asked if she is nice to my ex at least and she said, no, not particularly.

G told me he phoned him yesteday and he was still in our hometown and sounded miserable. He doesnt know, but he would be surprised if Helen is with him back home, as he seems ashamed of her and reluctant to introduce her to people as his girlfriend. He said, when he was with me, whenever he phoned him, my ex always sounded happy and upbeat and he never does now when with her.

He said my ex has talked to him about it and he had this ageing thing, fear of dying/ageing, not being atractive anymore, its his last chance to pull someone, he knows it'll be too late soon (oh dear god!).