I finally understand that moving along is looking FORWARD to the life that lies ahead of us, with hope, faith and ambitions and a lot of love !
So to move along/on we look ahead of us and not back to what was or used to be...!!!
I so hope that everyone here gets to this point once the excrutiating pain of losing your loved one to someone else passes....
Today my H came in and kissed me three times to wish me a Happy New Year. It made me happy that we could be civil in that way and maybe on some level actually wish each other happiness to come. Then he said that ow wishes me a happy new year too...I said thank you and left it at that. We shouldn't linger on those things, but be thankful for what we have instead of what may be missing. It is only THEN that we can achieve true happiness and joy for ourselves.
I know that there is a path for each and everyone of us, and that it is the journey we take to reach our goal that makes us who we are meant to become, so we should make the best of that journey, and thank God for guiding us and supporting us.
May you all have wonderful friends around you, who support, love and share your hopes and dreams, who wish you well and catch you when you fall.
So when all is said and done we too may help another soul to find their way out of the darkness.
To all of you who brought me back into the light.... THANK YOU.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus