Cheers to a good evening for you! Unfortunately there is always going to be some kind of drama anywhere you go and life in a bubble will not be much fun. The trick IMHO is to recognize it as soon as possible and then step back an observe and then make a decision on the best course of action to take.
We are imperfect people living in a imperfect world some people just don't have the tools to let go of things would whether wallow in it, easier to play victim then to move forward. It's a new year and open to all kinds of things...