Maybe I should be in piecing part 5?

[Hope4us]

Thanks guys.

Flynn, Wasn't really a thought with me. Wife doesn't like New Years as a holiday. Her BF right before me (whom she thought she was going to marry) stood her up on their last New Years together so he could cheat with his other GF. W has had an aversion to New Years since. We rarely do anything except sit home. If we do go anywhere, it's only to friends houses, but again that's pretty rare.

Puppy, I had that thought. She is concerned that I might be up to no good so she wanted to reel me back in without putting out, so to speak.

MC, You're exactly right, W love the chase. I really have a hard time with the DAM thing though. Did W ever make the effort with me either? No. Did she put on sexy nighties and go to bed with me like she did OM? Not after the first 10 years or so. But that's all in the past.

So....no one answered my question. Is it time for me to make a move towards affection with her? I did give her a hug this afternoon. First one in over a month. She hugged me back, but it wasn't like she was all over me or anything. Should I continue doing things like this? I guess in DB terms, I should try this for a bit and judge the results and adjust from there huh?