Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

native, Will you give me a man's POV, on this statement I wrote??

Maybe I should really listen, to what he wants & has said to me several times. He has said & thinks we should D & work on our R (or M) after we D. Kind of a catch22 doesn't want to stay M or loose me (as a friends anyway) - but wants to work on things after D. DBcoach Jody said once that after D he may be at a comfortable distance to work on R or M. Do I have my answer then & its been sitting in front of me??

So, what he said to me in a mans world is really what he wants, isn't it??? Gotta feeling it is .... he's just too afraid.